Cyber Bullying: A Threat to Everyone
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Virtual Playground
The ordinary school playground is no longer the only place bullies are found.
My sister was very angry when my niece came home from school crying. She was being bullied by her classmate and a close-friend, too by sending rumours about her in the net.
Some children at a young age of 13 onwards committed suicide because of cyber bullying. Even some TV and movie personalities in other countries have taken their lives because of it.
Cyberbullying is being cruel to others by sending or posting harmful material or engaging in other forms of social cruelty using the Internet or other digital technologies. It has various forms, including direct harassment and indirect activities that are intended to damage the reputation or interfere with the relationships of the student targeted, such as posting harmful material, impersonating the person, disseminating personal information or images, or activities that result in exclusion.
The act of bullying using the Internet usually happened after school, but the efffects can be felt after the incident happened on the web.
A 2007 study by the US-based Pew Internet and American Life Project found that one-third of American teen internet users have been targets of cyber bullies.It can happen in chatrooms, instant messaging and social networking.
Playground bullying stopped when the bell rang and you went back inside the school or went home. With cyber bullying it is 24/7 and 365 days a year.
For me, as an adult, I can just turn off my computer or fight back by answering equally harsh words, but that's not really the option of today's teens. They usually depend on the internet to keep in touch with peers.
That's very true. Even my sister warned my niece not to open their desktop computer, she still chat with her friends at the friendster's site even she was bullied once by one of her friends.
Even teachers are not spared from these cyber bullies. Libelous remarks about their teachers are being hurled at the site uk.ratemyteachers.com forcing the UK Association of Teachers and Lecturers to go to court in support of teachers who've been libeled online.
Nancy E. Willard, M.S., J.D.,with degrees in special education and law has formulated the "Cyber Bullying Legislation and School Policies." She taught “at risk”children, practiced computer law, and was an educational technology consultant before focusing her professional attention on issues of youth risk online and effective Internet use management in schools.
Governments have taken legislative action. The US Congress passed a law in 2006 making it a federal crime to "annoy, abuse, threaten or harass" another person over the internet. In South Korea, the "internet real-name system," introduced in 2007, forces online portals and news website to record the identities of people who post content and to disclose their contact details if someone wants to sue them for libel or infringement of privacy.
Cyberbullying: A Whole New World of Brutality
More and more threats are prevalent in the cyberworld targetting innocent children. You can see the harsh words "kick a ginger!" on Facebook accounts and other social media sites attacking mostly the kids.
More states in the United states of America are cracking down abusers with the cyberbullying laws. Here are some of the states who are active in punishing or tracking offenders.
Arkansas
- In 2007, the Arkansas legislation passed a law allowing school officials to take action against cyber bullies even if the bullying did not originate or take place on school property. The law gave school administrators much more freedom to punish those individuals who sought to harass their fellow students.
Idaho
- 2006 saw Idaho lawmakers pass a law that allowed school officials to suspend students if they bullied or harassed other students using a telephone or computer.
Iowa
- Iowa has passed several laws that force schools to create anti-cyberbullying policies which cover bullying "in schools, on school property or at any school function or school-sponsored activity."
New Jersey
- New Jersey has always maintained tough laws about bullying, but it wasn't until 2007 that the laws were amended to include bullying via "electronic communication." These laws give additional power to the school system to enforce bullying-related punishment for actions that may not take place while on school grounds.
Oregon
- The laws passed in recent years in Oregon expand the boundaries of what constitutes cyberbullying to include those actions which "substantially interfere" with the education of the young person.
Missouri
- The suicide of a 13-year old girl Megan Meier who was the victim of an internet hoax greatly raised the awareness of cyberbullying and its consequences in the state of Missouri. Missouri has also toughened their laws on the matter, upgrading cyber-harassment from a misdemeanor to a Class D felony.
New York
- New York created a system to investigate claims of cyberbullying that would help police and school officials better ascertain the circumstances of each occurrence and prosecute or punish the culprits to the fullest extent of the law.
Rhode Island
- The governor of Rhode Island is currently trying to pass a bill that would force repeat cyberbullying offenders to appear in family court, where they would be charged as delinquents under the terms of the state's laws for young offenders.
Vermont
- Vermont has added a $500 fine for cyberbullying offenses to their already stringent laws on the matter. There is currently a bill being discussed that would increase the reach of the school's powers regarding cyberbullying when the action puts the individual's ability to learn (or health and safety) at risk.
Currently, Massachusetts is considering House Bill 483 which would require schools to have anti-bullying training and procedures in place. It would require districts to produce an annual report citing cyberbullying incidents for the state legislature and the department of primary and secondary education. (Cyberbully Alert 2010)
Cyberbullying in the Philippines
This hubber is a Filipino, Travel Man that is. So, my concern is on what's happening to the youth, especially high school students who are now using or sporting cellular phones or cellphones when they go to school.
Right now, school policies are restricting the use of cellphones inside the classrooms. These set of rules are added to the regular policies, like the No ID, No Entry policy. The scenario being relayed by teacher is that cellular phones are often used to bully other classmates, by text messages and swapping of photos that have unruly or unbecoming remarks.
Although, cellular phones are prohibited in the classrooms, it is often used during breaktime, in the comfort rooms, playgrounds or even in the school's locker room where bullying among teenagers are rampant. Parents would like to check their kids if they are studying properly in school , so they provided cellphones to their sons or daughters.
Cyberbullying can even lead to suicide by the aggrieved parties or the kids being bullied, just like what happened in some cases.
So be vigilant, this is everybody's concern. The proper usage of modern gadgets like computers, cellphones and the internet should be regulated, whether or not your in the school campus, in the malls or at home chatting on the net.
Childnet International on Cyberbullying c/o KLSSupport
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Is there a law / act against cyber bullying?
Well, I'm still a victim and I don't know what to do coz it is affecting me and relationship to my co worker, what can I do i'm here in korea and he's in the Philippines...
To experience bullying on the net is so alarming. I've experienced it, too, in FaceBook.
My daughter was a victim too. Children must be accompanied by adults when using internet.
I am also a victim of a cyberbully in Facebook, Twitter and he is threatening to post private videos and photos of me to my family, friends and colleagues.... he's actually personally blackmailing me. I am a Filipina and this Cyber bully is from Scotland...can I mention his name so other women will know who he is in case you'd be the next victim...
Be careful about whom you accept as friends on FB. That's all i can say. If in real life that person has spread rumors about you and badmouthed you, then she could also do it online. What's worse is it's PRINTED for all to see, unlike words which are mere hearsay.
This breaks my heart. I am sorry we even have to address the issue. I am glad to see the law taking action.
I read the last comment too late. I'm a victim of cyberbullying. It began a week ago. Felt really depressed and even thought of death.
Hi travel_man1971!
I am Arky Agapito, a researcher from Kapuso Mo, Jessica Soho of GMA 7. We are currently doing a story about bullying, airing this coming Saturday, June 25, 2011. We are looking for victims of cyber bullying. The case of people being bullied using the latest technology seems very alarming. Is there any way you can help us with this? Please let me know. You can reach me via mail, arkyagapito@gmail.com or through my personal number, 0927510879.
Thank you very much. In anticipation of an immediate and positive reponse.
Best Regards,
Arky Agapito
Researcher
Kapuso Mo, Jessica Soho
Do you have "cyberbullied"'s contact details? (The one who posted a reply above.) He seems to be good subject. Or if you are interested too? or anyone whom you know? I hope you could extend your help. Thank you very much! :)
is there any legal action that i can do? its been months now and my kid is still being bullied. we both live here in the Philippines. i am very concerned about my kid's future, she is very affected. blocking doesn't work. the bully always finds a way to reach her, i really want to teach that bully a lesson (the bully is a girl). the bully is so confident we even know who she is and where she goes to school, she's younger than my kid! i really need some kind of action, this bully is so rude even to people she knows i am literally thinking that this bully has mental problems.
HELP I AM BEING CYBER BULLIED!!!!!!!!!! http://knowledgeshared.hubpages.com/hub/Cyber-Bull
We have to inspire those who bully others to understand the true consequences of doing such things to others. Most of them don't understand that they have a great amount of power with their words and actions of those who may have weaker personalities. Great hub I rated up.
A victim of cyber bullying shares her story here : http://wp.me/pXzqu-Du
people can say the meanest things when hidden behind a screen... like in honesty box on Facebook, it's appalling HOW MEAN the thingz some people say aree. it just shows that there are people who go online just to say the meanest things whereas in person they pretend they don't bully people.
Hi. I'm from Iloilo City and currently i'm being bullied on facebook. They took one of my photos and posted it in their facebook account with a caption saying very bad things about me. I blocked them from my account, now what's scary is that they contacted me last night through my mobile number and I feel like they're threatening me!
I think there are more than ten of us being bullied in their facebook account and I want to make a stop to it since they're trying to destroy our identity in our own university.
For now, I have no idea where to report this problem. I won't settle for the deactivation of their account in facebook. I want to know who the persons are (yes there are many of them) behind the facebook account they are using.
I don't know what our university can do since they posted a status claiming that they are already alumni (probably of our university)
If you're interested to know the name of their facebook account, I can put it here with your permission.
I need all the help and advices I can get. Thanks!
Do you have any idea where I can report this kind of problem and where I can have them traced legally?
I don't know if the police can do anything about this and I'm afraid that they might laugh at me. I heard that in the US, they already have offices that you could go to when you have problems like this.
Thanks for this amazing article!
is there a statistic? data? regarding cases of cyber bullying here in the philippines. Tnx
http://technology.inquirer.net/2941/kids-have-%E2%
Try reading this. :))
Hello Travel Man,
I think cyberbullying has become an extremely serious issue that many are turning a blind eye to, unfortunately. The internet was supposed to be our connection to the outside world, we can learn information about places we've never seen before. However, these insecure individuals who are hiding under the premise of "freedom of speech" are using the internet as a harmful tool against those who mean no harm. I know someone who committed suicide due to an onslaught of online bullying and the people who caused emotional damage this person still remain unpunished until today. There are people who say that it's "their right" and "freedom of speech" are common arguments to support whatever they post online, but my question is, is it freedom of speech to emotionally attack someone anonymously without remorse? How are children and other people ever going to feel safe going online knowing there are people who are hiding behind their computer screens ready to attack them? It's dangerous even online. I hope this bill will punish those who cyberbully others.
This is a really hot topic and a very serious issue. With 2 small boys I worry about, not so much how to prevent, but how to lessen exposure and how to teach my kids good coping skills. Many people come from loving and supportive families, but still have low self esteem. Thanks for bringing this issue to the forefront.
Hi I've been bullied on Facebook as well last october 2011. A girl posted a picture of me on her Facebook wall with a mean caption. it had gotten a lot of attention and mean comments from people I don't know about, and people who doesn't even know me, harassing me and humiliating me with their comments. I didn't do anything about it. I didn't even try to respond or retaliate. the girl and I have a few common friends in FB and they sent me a screen shot that's how I found out about it. I still have the evidence. and I want to do something about it just now because it still haunts me. I've been so depressed, I dont know if its because I didnt do anything about it. is it too late? I got hospitalized last november 'cause I've been so depressed and weak. thought about their mean comments a lot. I started seeing a pyschiatrist as well. :(
















bacville 2 years ago
I was a victim of cyber-bullying. too. I can manage now.